For instance, the way you speak of energy, as if it is some cosmic force independent of observation, is realism.
That last jump into non-realism is the hardest. It forces you abandon so many concepts, even metaphorically, that just lead right back to realism.
I apologize for my lack of patience. It is just difficult hitting the same wall all the time. I trust your intent is to escape the norm of realism. But I think that it would be better to share my writings and let you ask questions, than try to do a lot of work in this awkward back and forth format, if you are genuinely curious about what I have to offer.